TRADITION: Family buries a banana stem in place of their late dad.
The rare funeral procession for the Late Mzee Chege Kamau (INSET) where a banana stem was 'buried' in his place after a court injuction stopped his burial in Juja Sub-County. |
A family in Juja Kiambu County was forced to bury a banana
stem after they were denied to the right bury their 90 year old father.
Trouble started when family and friends went to the Kenyatta
University Mortuary to collect the body of Mzee Chege Kamau but were instead
slapped with a court injunction restraining them from burying him on the
identified burial site at his Magomano farm, Theta Ward.
With the body detained and already a grave dug, elders
immediately convened an impromptu meeting which resolved that the burial
ceremony had to go ahead, but this time they would bury a banana stem in the
place of the deceased.
“According to the Kikuyu culture, once a grave is dug, it
cannot be filled without burying the deceased otherwise his ghosts will start
haunting his family for not burying him on the date that had been set for the
ceremony especially now that the grave has already been dug. This may cause
deaths in the family and therefore we must plant this banana stem to wade off
these ghosts,” explained Mzee Kariuki Wa Migwi, a Kikuyu elder.
He added that planting the banana stem with its buds
symbolised life and that just as it will grow and bear fruit, the bereaved
family will live and multiply. However, Migwi warned that those who defied the
wishes and the will of the deceased will have themselves to blame as the wrath
of his spirits may descend on them.
The ceremony was administered by only those installed as
elders and had undergone all the Kikuyu traditional rituals pertaining to the
same.
“No one can carry or bury this stem if they have not
completed all the rituals to be installed as an elder according to the Agikuyu
traditions. Deviating from these norms may result to untold calamities to those
concerned,” Mzee Migwi warned.
Peter Kamau, the deceased eldest son, explained how his
three sisters secretly went behind their back and obtained a court order stopping
the burial of their father. The bone of contention is that the Late Mzee Chege
was living with his younger wife in his Juja home and had expressed his wish to
be buried there. This idea did not auger well with his daughters who are now
fighting to have him buried next to their later mother’s grave in Gitwe village
Gatundu South Constituency.
“My sisters have plunged us into all this mess as they have
obtained an injunction stopping our father’s burial at this site. My father had
made it clear about his wish and I will not be party to any of this drama nor
the court case. I am off this matter. Let them do whatever they want with his
remains,” said Kamau.
His sentiments were echoed by his step-mother Mary Njoki who
confirmed of her husband wish to be buried in Juja.
“When Mzee died on Tuesday (30th May 2017), I
called my step-son an informed him. He requested me to make arrangements to
have him taken to the morgue as they were not near. The following day, my
step-daughters came and insisted that we transfer the body to Gatundu but I
objected. It was then that they told me to go ahead with my burial plans as
they were done with me,” said the widow.
She suspects that the daughters’ objection is being driven
by their wish to eject her from her late husband’s parcel of land and then repossess
it.
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