40 Former Commercial Sex Workers Benefit From Grants To Start Own Businesses.
There is a common argument those women and girls who indulge
in prostitution do so by choice with some people even arguing out that it is a
female sexual liberation and a way for women to give full expression to their
deepest sexual fantasies. However, there is another school of thought who say
that some women become involved in prostitution due to homelessness, child
sexual abuse, trauma, previous sexual violence, drug and alcohol misuse, money
pressures and poverty.
The church
in Kenya is known to condemn and castigate these group of people and at no
given time are they welcome to be among the congregation due to their ‘sinful’
nature. Majority of our people too perceive commercial
sex work to be a disgraceful act that takes away the meaning of s3x. It is
believed that these girls are primarily the reason for the rampant sexually
transmitted diseases.
In Kenya, it is generally considered a taboo and despite being
illegal, it still thrives.
Anyway, studies
have shown that about 70% of these women seek to exit prostitution, often taking
several attempts to do so. However, exiting is dependent on the consistent
support they receive across the services and accessibility of those ‘helping’
services, in maintaining that departure.
One church,
New Hope Church International, through their involvement with Wapate
Initiative, heard the cry of these commercial sex workers who were going
through hell in the streets of Thika and decided to offer hope to them and
their families.
“When we
heard their heart-breaking stories during our first meeting with them, we just
felt moved to do something. And I believe that is what the church is all about.
The church is a healing centre that should be engaging the community where it hurts
to bring about healing and hope,” said Gloria Azikiwe, the lead pastor.
Pastor Azikwe talking to the press during the Launch of 'Street Off Ministry'. |
At the YMCA
Grounds Thika, New Hope Church launched the ‘Street Off Foundation’ that seeks
to empower ex-commercial sex workers who want to leave the streets and get
alternative means of income. Each group of these reformed commercial sex
workers will undergo a one-year programme that will see them go through
spiritual nourishment, counselling, business training and actually running
their own businesses.
“For the
last six months, we have been in the process off empowering them in diverse
ways, counseling them, walking the journey of transformation with them and
finally we are today launching this initiative to see them walk through their
new life in legitimate business. There are those among them here who also would
want to go back to school,” she said.
According to
Pastor Azikwe, the journey has not been smooth sailing for majority of these
new converts. Many of them were really broken and into drugs when they came to
the session. But with time, they went through counselling sessions, helping
them heal from the trauma and experiences into accepting themselves.
She said
that many of these women would receive business grants averaging sh. 50,000
adding that they were doing this in phases so as avoid overwhelming these new
entrepreneurs into failure of making it in business.
“We want to
walk with them all through their journey. Basically, we probably won’t be
handing them direct money but we will be taking them to the source, help them
buy the goods, rent out business premises for them so that they can eventually begin
their business. We want to avoid a situation where one is tempted to spend the
seed capital and eventually finding themselves back to the streets again,” said
Azikwe.
Emmy Linn Kelly,
an American pastor in Carolina said that it was a privilege to be in Kenya to
celebrate the launch of ‘Street Hope Ministry’ and to see the beneficiaries of
their initiative start a new life.
Pastor Emmy from New Hope Church in America. |
“We
understand that there is such a large need to empower women and a few men who
are on the streets but really need to start a new life. We are here today to
celebrate as they begin their journey in entrepreneurship and provide for their
families in a healthy safe and positive way,” said Pastor Emmy.
Unfortunately,
majority of those who had resolved to quit the trade were the older ladies who
had seen it all and were only looking for a way out of the streets. The young
commercial sex workers were still feeling that this was just an alternative
means of livelihood.
“Many of
the young ladies still feel not ready to get out of the trade. The majority of
those who have come here are those who stayed in the trade for years and have
seen the worst of experiences and came to a point where they have reached the
end,” said Azikwe.
Elizabeth
Wanjiru from Kiandutu slums was all praises as she recalled her previous life
and the new hope that the church had brought into her life. She said that
during her previous life, she had seen the best and the worst of this trade.
“I am happy
that they have helped me reform and get to the church. Previously, it didn’t matter
to me what or who I slept with as long as they had the money. It is hell out
there. At times these men use you and instead of paying for the services I had
offered they would attack you and beat you up. I have seen so many of my
friends get killed or died of HIV/AIDS,” she said.
She appealed
to those who were still in the streets to come and join them as there was hope
in this new life.
Another beneficially,
Catherine Muthoni, who has been in the business since the year 2013 agrees with
Wanjiru that commercial sex workers undergo very many challenges in the course
of their work. She thanks God that she is now out of the streets.
She begged
all those who were about to indulge with this trade to think otherwise as this
was like booking a ticket to hell.
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