Counsellor appeals for acceptance for child born with congenital amputation.
Ms. Rosemary Njeri narrates her story to Psychologist Gladys Chania at Thika Level 5 Hospital. (RIGHT) Baby John Gachuhi who was born with congenital amputation at Igegania Hospital on Sunday. |
Renowned psychologist
Gladys Chania has called on parents to accept and celebrate children born with
various birth defects.
Chania has also appealed to communities to also play a part
by accepting and providing opportunities for these children instead of
subjecting them and their parents to ridicule.
While speaking at Thika Level 5 Hospital after visiting Ms. Rosemary
Njeri, 32, who gave birth to a baby boy without part of his legs and hands,
Chania acknowledged that such parents faced a lot of stigma and isolation which
in turn affected their relationship with the rest of the society.
Baby John Gachuhi was born on Sunday at Igegania Level 4 Hospital
in Gatundu North sub-county and later transferred to Thika. Other than his
defective limbs, the boy was also born without the chinbone.
“Such parents face a lot of ridicule in the society
something that affects the kids both socially and psychologically. I would like
to encourage people to embrace such cases and be positive on such births,” she
said.
She was happy that the boy’s parents had accepted the
situation and were very ready to take care of him just the same way they took
care of his other four siblings.
“The boy’s father is very supportive and is encouraging his
wife to accept the situation as it is. They are both very ready to defend their
son from any negative forces that comes his way,” she said.
The father, 48-year old Stanley Githiinji is a casual labourer
while the wife is just a peasant farmer in Mukuyu-ini village, Gatundu North.
Other than the defects on his limbs and chin, doctors have
passed a clean bill of health on the boy who was born at 3.2kg.
“Nothing much can be done to his limbs but doctors say that
his chin can be artificially rectified. Otherwise, he is very healthy and can
grow up to a very normal boy.”
Congenital
amputation is a condition where a child is born without a limb or
limbs, or without a part of a limb or limbs.
It is known to be caused by blood clots forming in the fetus
while in utero (vascular insult) and from amniotic band
syndrome: fibrous bands of the amnion that constrict foetal limbs to
such an extent that they fail to form or actually fall off due to missing blood
supply.
Congenital amputation can also occur due to maternal
exposure to teratogens during pregnancy. In most of these such
defects occur in the first three months of pregnancy when the organs of the
fetus are beginning to form.
33-year old inspirational speaker Nick Vujicic was born with
an extremely rare congenital disorder known as Phocomelia, which is
characterised by the absence of legs and arms.
Growing up in Melbourne, Australia, Nick struggled mentally,
emotionally, and physically. Bullied at school, he attempted suicide when he
was just 10 years old.
Eventually coming to terms with his disability, Nick decided
to become vocal about living with disabilities and finding hope and meaning in
life. The charismatic Australian now travels the world addressing huge crowds.
He has visited more than 57 countries and given over three thousand talks, some
of which have attracted audiences as large as 110,000 people.
Nick has also founded an international non-profit
organisation and ministry, Life Without Limbs, through which he campaigns
against bullying. Brimming with life, Nick loves to paint, swim, skydive, and
surf. He has also published his memoir Love Without Limits, which is an
international bestseller.
Happily married to Kanae Miyahara, Nick is the proud father
of two sons.
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